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Would
you like to know how much repetition you must execute before you learn
a stroke? Would you like to know approximately how many hits it takes
before you begin noticing some improvement?
Read on!
About a year
ago utilizing my Tennis Warrior System I began keeping mental notes
of approximately how many repetitions it would take before a player
began to feel a difference on a given stroke. It was amazing to
watch many different players improve their stroke in a similar fashion
when they reached a certain number of repetitions.
Of course this
is not a scientific study and common sense dictates that no two
players will develop in exactly the same fashion. But this will
give you an excellent guide to help you understand what it REALLY
takes to develop your tennis game and what to generally expect when
you learn a stroke.
After all these
years of teaching I have come to a conclusion that most players
do not really get it. They have no idea how much repetition and
practice a top pro has put themselves through. Even though most
players will say they do understand, when it comes to learning the
game they want to hear something technical so they can quickly correct
their stroke and the magic begins! Repetition and practice are something
they will get around to someday if they have the time.
Well, if you
ever get around to practicing and executing repetition, here is
what to expect. You will begin to notice subtle differences every
1000 balls you hit. That's right every 1000 balls! And you will
begin to feel a pretty significant change every 5000 balls hit.
When you pass the 6000 to 8000 range you will begin to believe you
can develop this shot in a way you never dreamed possible. By the
10,000 to 15,000 range you will possess an good backhand, but now
you can begin the refining of the stroke to iron out the difficult
subtleties and continue to improve....more repetition! At this point
your confidence will begin to soar.
With all this
in mind, once again read what Nick Bollettieri said in a Question
and Answer session when ask about Monica Seles.
QUESTION TO
NICK: How can I hit like Monica Seles?
NICK'S ANSWER:
Let me tell you how Seles learned to hit like Seles. At the academy
she went out and hit ball, after ball, after ball. She would hit
500 to 1,000 balls all working on just one shot until she had it
perfected. Not just good, but perfected. To hit like her, I would
suggest you do the same.
Now I'm sure,
after seeing Nick's responce, this all sounds mind boggling to you,
but keep in mind if you play doubles one or two times a week you
hit probably 10,000 to 20,000 balls a year. If you play more or
play some singles you reach the 20,000 to 40,000 range a year. By
the way pros do this in about a month or less! Unfortunately these
numbers are for all different strokes, not just one particular stroke!
And there in lies the problem. You play for a year but you have
probably hit only 1,500 hundred of one stroke or another. If you
are like most players you have been running around your backhand
to hit forehands so you probably only hit 800 to 1000 backhands
a year. And you wonder why your backhand suffers! Most players hit
two to three times more forehands than backhands year after year
after year.
I realize many
of you do not have time to practice daily and hit that many balls
to improve. If you just add some simple week to week ball machine
practice or practice with a partner focusing on hitting just 100
balls for one stroke (that would take you about ten to fifteen minutes)
you would add close to 5000 hits a year for that shot! Instead of
hitting only 800 to 1000 backhands a year you could get close to
6000! What a difference that would make.
If you are patient
and stay with the process here is an example of what changes you
will begin to feel. Let's say you are working on a backhand. At
the 1000 mark you will begin feeling some strength that you did
not expect. At the 2000 to 4000 range you will begin judging the
ball a little better and show signs of taking some small quick steps
to adjust your body position. At this point you still believe the
ball you are hitting has to be in a certain spot for you to make
a good shot.
At the 5000
to 8000 range you begin developing better balance. Where you were
clumsily falling off balance you will now feel a more controlled
recovery. And you will feel like the high follow through is more
automatic. At the 8000 to 10,000 mark you will begin realizing the
ball does NOT have to be contacted in a perfect spot for you to
make a good shot. Some times the ball may be to close to you, but
all the repetition has developed some instincts you did not even
know existed. You automatically adjust to the close ball and begin
making shots you can not believe! Many balls are still flying out,
but you are beginning to control the direction of the ball better
than ever.
At the 10,000
to 15,000 range the percentage of shots landing in the court increases
dramatically...and you are on your way! You're excited about your
results and you possess a backhand the likes of which few club players
have ever seen. You now understand the power of repetition and promptly
send me a box of Hershey's almond chocolate bars (my weak spot :)
In conclusion,
whether you are aspiring to become a pro or just a good club player
you must put in the time to achieve your goals. Everyone must go
through these different phases of repetition to improve their game.
THERE IS NO OTHER WAY!
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Five
mental dynamics of repetition
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Repetition
oriented thinking vs. Technically oriented thinking, we are not through
yet! Last lesson I gave you one reason why Repetition oriented thinking
is superior to Technically oriented thinking. When you are Repetition
oriented the emphasis is on YOU doing something not relying on the
technical to do it for you. It's subtle, but the difference in thinking
exists big time in match play. Remember, the Repetition oriented thinker
relies on himself for the win rather than relying on the technical
to be right to win!
Can you not
be technically sound according to the "so called" traditional
way illustrated in hundreds of books and still win? Yes, of course,
the pro's do it all the time. It's called mental toughness. The
big advantage of Repetition oriented thinking is that it has mental
toughness built right into it!!! Besides being oriented toward YOU
taking the responsibility for your play, there are four other dynamic
benefits that Repetition offers. Let me briefly cover them here.
Number one would
be improved concentration. Obviously, if you can withstand a lot
of Repetition your concentration will improve. And how about this,
do you know what the key to concentration is? The key is self-discipline!
One more time we are back to YOU! Your concentration improves because
YOU keep concentrating even when it gets boring. It's up to YOU!
Number two is
learning to deal with the good and bad cycles that exist when you
do a lot of Repetition. For a while you are doing well, than five
minutes later you're doing poorly. This is true also in match play,
therefore, Repetition can teach you how to deal with the ups and
downs of a match. I don't care if you are number one in the world,
the good and bad cycles always exist. It's important to understand
ahead of time that these cycles will occur and not be frustrated
by them.
Number three
is learning to deal properly with the bad times that Repetition
produces. All matches have times when you are playing poorly. Repetition
teaches you how to deal with these times by not making many changes,
but instead staying with what you are doing and concentrating on
improving your timing and rhythm. I have seen this over and over
again in sports (even on a professional level). The athlete has
trouble and starts changing everything under the sun. For weeks
they try to come out of their slump by correcting every technical
thing possible. Eventually, out of frustration they give up and
just start going for their shots. To their amazement they come out
of their slump! What occurred was simple, they stopped over-thinking
and their timing and rhythm clicked back in. Do not over-think during
your bad times!!! It's more about timing and rhythm than anything
else.
And finally
number four - from Repetition you learn not to tense up and "make
it happen," but to relax and "let it happen," a key
element in high level match play! When you do a lot of repetition
you quickly learn that tensing up only makes it worse. You must
learn in your matches to "let it happen" not "make
it happen." Repetition can teach you this principle! Let's
summarize and list the five dynamics of repetition.
1) Repetition
Orientation relies on YOU not the technical.
2) Teaches you
improved concentration through self-discipline.
3) Teaches you
to understand there will always be good and bad cycles in a match.
4) Teaches you
to handle your bad times without making major changes.
5) Teaches you
to not "make it happen" in matches, but master the art
of "letting it happen."
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The
keys to consistency in tennis
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The
key to tennis without a doubt is consistency. Whether you are hitting
the ball right to your opponent or going for a winner, you must be
consistent. Physical consistency requires mental consistency. What
is the key to mental consistency? Its concentration! The ability
to stay focused on what you are doing for long periods of time. Whether
it is playing a match or practicing, the more you are capable of staying
focused, the more consistent you will become. You may be thinking,
"Okay, I will buy that, concentration is the key to consistency.
So, where do I get this concentration thing from? Can I purchase a
pill some place?" No, but if you ever find one let me know.
The truth is
the key to concentration is self-discipline. Wow! This is really
beginning to hit home. You are responsible through self-discipline
to improve your concentration, which in turn improves your consistency.
This means you should not only concentrate when things are going
well, but also when you are losing, having trouble, or even when
you are tired. Many times during practice I have heard players say.
"Im tired, I cant concentrate anymore, its
time to stop." In other words, what they are really saying
is, it was the tiredness that made them stop concentrating. It is
not their fault! This is where self-discipline comes into play.
You discipline yourself to keep concentrating even though you are
a little tired and playing poorly. By doing this you are challenging
yourself to reach a new level of concentration. When your concentration
improves so will your consistency.
Too many times
players look for something external, like an exciting situation,
or playing well to help them concentrate, instead of relying on
their own internal decision making process. Repeat! Too many times
players look for something external, like an exciting situation,
or playing well to help them concentrate, instead of relying on
their own internal decision making process. If you would like to
increase your consistency in tennis you must be self-disciplined
and concentrate regardless of the situation.
To summarize,
the key to tennis is consistency - the key to consistency is concentration
- the key to concentration is self-discipline - the key to self-discipline
is YOU - and the key to YOU is...I havent the faintest idea!!!
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Before
beginning, you should know that I am NOT against science or any of
the stunning discoveries science has made. The application of science
to tennis has been both useful and confusing. Often the missing link
to clear up the confusion is common sense. In fact, anything you learn
from anyone, including myself, must be couched in common sense.
For instance,
many of you know that I teach with little technical information
and a lot of repetition. A tennis stroke is more about developing
a feel through repetition than forcing a host of different technical
skills on a player. A player should develop his own game with his
own individual style, form and personality. What I often hear about
this concept is, "No technical skills?! You just let players
do whatever they want? What if a player chokes up on the racket
and holds it on the throat? Then what do you do? Let them do whatever
they want?" My answer is, "I would tell that player to
hold the racket on the handle." You must apply common sense
procedures to the knowledge that anyone teaches you. Just because
I place repetition and individuality first does not mean I cannot
give a player common sense information and correct guidelines.
With this in
mind, what you learn from scientific studies and the many scientific
devices (like slow motion video) must be couched in common sense.
Although, I must admit, applying this to science can be difficult.
Mainly because science is so sophisticated and so exacting that
the tendency is to believe, this must be right! And it often is
right, but this does not mean the application to a given field is
correct. And herein lies the problem!
For example,
what I call the "professional model syndrome" is a source
of much confusion and misapplication. Doing a scientific study using
sophisticated slow motion videos you can take excellent videos of
professional tennis players in action. Then you can watch as a pro
hits the stroke this way or that way with the wrist firm or the
weight forward, etc. With this "professional model" you
are now supposed to do the same. A pro may hit a forehand groundstroke
out in front with his wrist in a certain position and this now becomes
the 'technique' you should emulate.
Not a bad idea!
The problem is that scientific studies cannot measure the PROCESS
by which a pro has reached that point! The video just shows the
final RESULT. What science is breaking down is the RESULT of all
those months and years of experience and placing it in a 'technique'
category. Somehow you are now supposed to take this technique WITHOUT
THE PROCESS OF EXPERIENCE OR REPETITION and begin keeping the wrist
firm or the weight forward. Sorry, but this is just not going to
happen. Not unless you have gone through a PROCESS OF EXPERIENCE
AND REPETITION which will prepare you correctly to assimilate and
apply that information according to your OWN INDIVIDUAL STYLE AND
FORM.
What is left
out of the scientific equation is the thousands and thousands of
times a pro mistimed the forehand before he mastered it. Science
cannot measure all the internal human elements that come together
to develop a top-notch professional stroke. The process is too intricate,
too personalized and too individualized for science to categorize
because you learn a stroke by the blending of many different senses
unique to you to develop a feel for a given stroke. Steffi Graf
was notorious for hitting the ball with her forehand farther back
than most players. This may not be scientifically correct, but she
had one of the most explosive forehands in the game!
You may be thinking,
"how much better she would have been if she had performed the
forehand according to the scientific study." Well, maybe yes
and maybe no...who knows! If she was forced, against her natural
instinct, to hit the ball in front with her forehand maybe she would
have become frustrated and quit the game of tennis! Or maybe because
it was not her natural feel to hit like this she would have had
a horrible forehand. Again, who knows! Who cares! Science does not
play the game of tennis, humans do! That's why you can use science
or slow motion videos of pros to help your game, but do not eliminate
the fact that it was the process more than the exact technique that
is the unsung hero! Use your common sense and develop your own unique
game.
I remember watching
a video by Vic Braden called, "The Science and Myths of Tennis."
In the video, Vic points out that when serving, the best height
to toss the ball is approximately to the top of the racket when
reaching up. According to science, tossing the ball to this height
makes it easier to time the serve. If the ball is higher, then your
timing would be more difficult because of the extra drop before
you hit the ball. Vic then adds that the debate goes on about the
correct height to toss the ball on the serve. What do the pros do?
Some toss the ball lower and some toss the ball higher than the
scientific mark. Again, you must add individual feel, style and
form into the equation.
So there you
have it, science says this is the best way and science says that
is the best way....but is it?
USE YOUR COMMON SENSE AND TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS AND YOU WILL AVOID
SCIENCE FICTION!
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Training
your internal senses
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As
many of you know I teach tennis strokes by feel and not mechanics,
much like a child learns to ride a bicycle or learns to walk. The
child may be performing daily mechanics as he learns to walk, but
he cannot walk or ride a bicycle until he develops a feel for walking
or riding through repetition. You can walk today because you feel
a sense of timing and a sense of balance from that repetition. And
that sense of timing and balance allows the mechanics of walking to
work! A tennis lesson should be no different. Just because you can
perform a stroke mechanically, does not mean you have functional stroke.
Without a feel for that stroke you may look pretty as you hit, but
your results will be dismal.
This is where
conventional tennis lessons go astray. Pros are preoccupied with
the exact mechanics of the stroke, giving the impression to the
student that the mechanics performed properly is the stroke. You
may be thinking... "well isn't it?" Answer, not even close!
I have seen
thousands of players hit the so-called perfect stroke and send the
ball sailing miles out! Meanwhile, the pros who do not have the
so-called perfect stroke are hitting the balls in the court consistently!
They do this by feel. Unless you have developed a feel from training
the internal skills or senses you will have a superficial stroke
that will inevitably break down under pressure.
You must learn
to execute all your strokes by feel. How do you develop this feel?
You develop this feel by training four internal senses by massive
repetition. Those senses are:
1. Timing
2. Judgement
3. Balance
4. Muscle sense
All four of
these internal senses combine together to form a whole, creating
a 'feel' for a given shot. And that 'feel' allows the mechanics
to work correctly. If you have a feel for a stroke you can improvise
to make a shot. When you are all mechanics the ball had better be
in the exact spot necessary to make the shot or YOU'RE IN TROUBLE!
If you have a feel for a stroke you will identify with the stroke
as a whole unit. If you are all mechanics you will identify with
the stroke as individual parts, which can be mind boggling!
What I just
explained about developing the four senses is why all pros have
different styles and different form. Everyone has a different sense
of timing, judgment, balance, and muscle sense. There are a million
ways to swing high to low for slice and a million ways to swing
low to high for topspin. No two pros are the same. Once a pro's
internal senses are developed as a junior, his own individual style
is revealed. This is accomplished by hitting thousands and thousands
and thousands of balls. They may not look like the books explain
or illustrate, but the results speak for themselves!
As juniors,
pros may have had some lessons on the technical skills, but it was
not until their internal senses were developed through repetition
that their own individual style was revealed.
I remember reading
about Bjion Borg and his big looping forehand with the western grip.
Even though coaches tried to change his forehand, Borg just kept
hitting it because he said it just felt natural. As you know, the
rest is history. The big looping forehand has become a common shot
on the pro circuit and has changed tennis forever!
You too should
learn to develop your own style through massive repetition. Yes,
it's fine to take lessons, but do not rely on the technical to make
you a good player. Instead rely more on training your internal senses,
your sense of timing, your sense of judgment, your sense of balance,
and your muscle sense to the point where you begin feeling the stroke,
even if the stroke is not book perfect. Who knows, maybe you will
change the face of tennis again!
When you train
with emphasis on mechanics you become more robotic and rigid. When
you train with emphasis on feel you become more natural and automatic...just
like a pro! Eliminate from your mind this notion of the perfect
mechanical stroke. That notion will hamper your freedom on the court
to express your own style and form and to just be you! Instead,
learn to develop your internal senses through hours and hours of
practice on the tennis court.
Let me leave
you with a response from Bjiorn Borg in his book "Borg on Borg."
Below is the interviewer's question and Borg's answer exactly as
it appears in the book.
Question: You
are the best player in the world and lots of people try to imitate
your style. It has been said you don't like to be imitated. Is this
true?
Bjiorn Borg
- " I know lots of players try to imitate me and I'm not sure
that's a good thing for them. I think it's better to find your own
personal style, as Mr. Bergelin [his coach] has said, rather than
imitating someone. Playing like me might go right against the personality
of the player who's trying to do it.
I think it's
difficult to play as I do. You have to be very quick if you have
a two-handed backhand, because you have to be nearer the ball when
you hit it, so you have to get to it sooner. I see lots of young
people trying to put on top-spin like Vilas and myself. I have nothing
against it. It might even be a good idea, because it's difficult
to play against opponents who put a lot of top-spin on the ball.
But the most important thing is to feel at home playing your strokes.
Everything else, slice or top-spin will follow naturally. Find the
style that suits you best."
How do you like
those last few lines? "But the most important thing is to FEEL
at home playing your strokes. Everything else, slice or top-spin
will follow naturally. FIND THE STYLE THAT SUITS YOU BEST."
This information
was from a book written in 1979. It's now 2004! Do you think the
tennis world will ever get it? :)
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Self-discipline
is the key to creating momentum
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Often
it takes time to make subtle connections between two principles that
seem unrelated, especially in the realm of the mind. For instance,
you have momentum in a match and you have self-discipline in your
practice sessions. How does one affect the other? What impact does
self-discipline have in establishing momentum in a match?
If you stay
with the Tennis Warrior System you will see many different connections
that will help you advance your game and your thinking rapidly.
It's a philosophy, a way of thinking that most of the top pros have
mastered. Like anything else in life, learning will take time, patience,
knowledge, and practice. To see the big picture you must understand
the connection between these principles. That's why I have a website,
email lessons, books, and tapes to help you begin to embrace all
the dimensions of the game.
To see the vital
connection between self-discipline and match momentum you must understand
two principles.
1. The key to
tennis is consistency, the key to consistency is concentration,
and the key to concentration is self-discipline.
2. Consistency
establishes momentum
Since you take
your mind with you wherever you go, the self-discipline you develop
in your weekly practice will become a mental habit that you bring
into your matches. How can this help your match play? In your practice
sessions you were self-disciplined to continue practicing week after
week regardless of the failures, frustrations, and obstacles. This
SELF-DISCIPLINE you enforce on yourself in practice begins improving
your CONCENTRATION. The key to CONSISTENCY in tennis is CONCENTRATION,
therefore when your CONCENTRATION improves so does your CONSISTENCY!
You become more CONSISTENT not only in your practice sessions, but
through the failures, frustrations, and obstacles of a match. As
a direct result of SELF-DISCIPLINE in your practice sessions you
become more CONSISTENT in your match play. Remember, you bring your
mind with you wherever you go!
Now, where does
MOMENTUM in a match fit into this scenario? Well, if you have not
yet figured it out, CONSISTENCY ESTABLISHES MOMENTUM. The CONSISTENCY
you have established in your practice sessions through SELF-DISCIPLINE
now helps you establish MOMENTUM through the ups and downs of match
play. You learn that when you are in trouble in a match you must
exert SELF-DISCIPLINE and reestablish your CONSISTENCY to get the
MOMENTUM back. CONSISTENCY ESTABLISHES MOMENTUM! As a bonus in your
match play you will begin thinking automatically and instinctively
from the habits you formed in your practice sessions.
But listen carefully,
if you have not developed self-discipline through the ups and downs
in your practice sessions, then in your match play your only focus
will be on the failures, frustrations, and obstacles. You have not
conditioned your thinking properly and gaining back momentum will
be impossible.
THUS THE SELF-DISCIPLINE
YOU HAVE DEVELOPED IN YOUR PRACTICE SESSIONS HAS A MAJOR IMPACT
ON MOMENTUM IN YOUR MATCH PLAY.
Have you ever
noticed that the best athletes in the world are the most self-disciplined.
Make no mistake about it, the best athletes have not only developed
their physical talents through self-discipline, but they have simultaneously
molded their thought process right along with it.
You can and
must do the same!
Although your
week-to-week practice with repetition may seem insignificant relative
to the big picture, this consistent practice has far-reaching mental
implications that WILL be the difference between winning and losing
a match.
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Selecting
the correct thought
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Welcome
to the tennis lesson hotline, sponsored by Tom's Tennis Tapes, "educating
players one mind at a time". I'm Tom Veneziano. This lesson lasts
approximately 2 minutes and changes on the 1st of every month.
No matter what
you do in tennis it must be consistent. You have heard of the three
L's in real estate, location, location, location. Well, in tennis
it would be the three C's consistency, consistency, consistency.
Consistency establishes momentum. If you want the momentum on your
side be consistent. You need to be consistent not only physically
but mentally. Physically by hitting the correct shots again and
again. Mentally by selecting the correct thoughts again and again.
Most players can understand being consistent with their shots, but
being consistent with their thoughts usually seems a bit confusing.
You must practice selecting the highest percentage thought for the
situation.
For example,
let us suppose you are making mistakes and you are on the verge
of becoming upset. The two choices you have when you miss are: 1.
Get upset and negative, become tentative and lose the next couple
of points and even the match...or 2. Manage your mistakes and keep
giving yourself an opportunity to win. By choosing number two (managing
your mistakes) you are selecting the highest percentage thought
for the situation. Selecting this thought consistently gives you
the greatest opportunity to win over the long haul. It is as simple
as that! You choose to get upset or you choose to manage your mistakes.
The more you select to manage your mistakes the more mentally consistent
you become. This is what high percentage thought selection is all
about. The choice is yours. ...you CAN control what you think, you
just have to practice.
Consistency
establishes momentum. You must learn to be consistent with your
thoughts as well as your shots. Consistency, consistency, consistency,
when you become consistent both physically as well as mentally you
become a formidable foe. The result, you are the type of player
who is not put out by anything and you make your opponent beat you
in order to win. You are mentally tough...and you know it!!!
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Reflection
and resolution
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Here
are some New Year's resolutions and reflections to help your game
. If you are using my website, email lessons, books, and tapes your
game should be advancing . As I tell many players and pros, "if
you follow my system you have to improve!" Usually they think
that sounds a little boastful. I always preface that comment with,
"I really did not create the principles that make up my system.
All I did was organize, categorize, and systematize principles that
already exist!"
For instance,
if you did 20 push-ups three times a week for three months, by the
end of those three months would you be stronger? Of course you would!
If you designed a system that categorized a consistent process for
a person to follow for three months, could you confidently say,
"If you stick with my system you have to become stronger."
Of course you could! I have worked hard and put long hours in to
organize a system based on EXISTING SUCCESS PRINCIPLES that have
to work! Every pro who has ever played the game had to use these
principles. No pro that I know of has ever picked up a racket and
one week, one month or one year later became a pro. They had to
put in the time and the repetition! NO talent is above this principle.
No matter how much natural talent or proclivity a person may posses
for a particular sport, profession or artistic endeavor no success
can be achieved without repetition.
With this in
mind, if you would like to improve your game faster you too MUST
put in the time! Put in the time on what? Well, I cannot teach you
specific strokes over an email but I can challenge you to TAKE CONSISTENT
ACTION!
THE PLAN
In addition
to your normal play, pick one of your weak shots and work on it
week after week. Hit a minimum of 100 balls a week on a ball machine
or have a friend feed you some balls. If you have time to hit other
strokes, by all means practice repetition there too. Keep in mind
though, 100 balls a week is a bare minimum. If you aspire to be
a pro you must hit many, many, many, many, many more balls. THEN
after you have hit all those balls...your practice begins!
Let's say you're
a club player with a weak backhand. Reflecting to a past email lesson,
a club player who plays doubles twice a week normally hits around
1,500 backhands a year. Most players run around their backhand and
hit forehands so many times it may only be 800 or so backhands a
year! If you were to add 100 extra backhands a week, that would
be approximately 400 backhands a month and 5000 a year. You would
be hitting five times more backhands in 2003! Do you think your
backhand would improve a little faster?
Now, putting
this plan in place and staying with it the whole year is where players
run in to big time problems.
STAYING WITH
IT!
Let me show
you a typical pattern that most people fall into when beginning
something new. They say, "yes, I'm going for it this year,
I'm going to put in the time and make it happen." They then
proceed to go out and hit hundreds and hundreds of balls weekly.
They're excited, they're motivated and they are making it happen!
I believe 'gung ho' is the phrase.
After about
one month of over doing the practice they begin to tire and question
what they are doing. Eventually, instead of just backing off to
a tolerable level of practice they just give up! The concept is
called 'all or nothing.' If they cannot do it all they will do nothing.
Most people start off 'gung ho' and then quit. Here is a better
way to handle this wonderful enthusiasm.
Reflecting to
a past email lesson...CONSISTENCY ESTABLISHES MOMENTUM. Using the
weak backhand illustration, do not begin your weekly practice by
thinking in terms of developing a backhand. Instead think in terms
of FIRST establishing some consistency. I don't care if you do 50
backhands a week at first. What ever amount you chose, do not exceed
100-200 a week for the first month. CONSISTENCY FIRST! After the
first month, begin adding a little or stay at the 100-200 mark until
you are ready to increase. Once you have established a PATTERN OF
WEEKLY PRACTICE then kick in some 'gung ho!' If you would like to
stay at the 100-200 level...that's fine! Just make sure by the year
end you are still doing the 100-200 backhands a week.
At the health
club where I work out there is a girl named Phyllis who works on
the tread mill. She does her one hour walk/run routine 3-4 times
a week faithfully week after week. I have seen guys come in there
'gung ho' running like the wind along side her. Six months later
she is still there plugging along with the same routine and the
'gung ho' guys are no where to be found! She could literally run
circles around them. She is in a league all by herself. She has
established tremendous momentum from the consistency. I marvel at
her ability to stay with it.
Learn to establish
momentum in anything you do by FIRST establishing consistency, then
build on that consistency. When beginning a new project or tennis
practice do not try to accomplish everything perfectly or quickly.
Focus first on consistent action, no matter how much you are doing.
You can develop a backhand or any shot you desire by following this
simple formula .
Do the simple
right, then do the simple better, then simply be the best at doing
the simple! The pros do the simple so well...you think it's complicated!
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Mental
toughness for juniors
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I
have been asked many times about mental toughness for juniors. Questions
like, "do you have any special material for juniors? How old
should a child be before you teach them mental toughness?" In
this lesson I will answer these questions and give you more insight
into basic mental toughness.
To begin, I
have taught mental toughness principles to children ages 7, 12,
16, 24, 40, 55, and older! :) Yes, as you know, some adults are
like children. At times, I'm sure I'm no exception!
Basic mental
toughness can be taught to anyone at any age. The foundation for
mental toughness is learning to take responsibility for your own
mistakes and failures. If I am teaching tennis to a 7-year-old child,
I immediately begin orienting the child to mistakes and failures
as part of the learning process. I do not make an issue out of failing.
In fact, I encourage it! My desire is that the child understands
that it's okay to take a swing and miss. Why? Because that's the
EXACT mental attitude pros have mastered from years of practice.
But, by the time you see them on television they are making a higher
percentage of their shots. As a result you are not aware of the
years of mental training they endured through their many failures.
IMPORTANT! THE
CORRECT MENTAL ATTITUDE MUST BE IMMEDIATELY TRAINED INTO A PLAYER
AND THAT MENTAL ATTITUDE TAKES PRIORITY OVER MAKING A SHOT.
Parents obviously
can teach their child at an early age to handle failures and mistakes
in any endeavor the child may pursue. Even if it's just learning
how to walk! By doing this you are teaching them basic mental toughness.
This sets the stage for the child to eventually learn some advanced
mental toughness. Advanced skills like learning to cope with the
up and down emotional roller coaster inherent in match play. How
is a child or adult going to handle these ups and downs in a match
when they have not yet learned to handle a simple failure?
Now, do adults
handle failures on the court well? No, not many! They too have to
be taught to handle failures and mistakes correctly as part of the
process of learning and part of match play. I'm afraid that most
people were taught at a young age that failures and mistakes are
the bad guys! They have in their psyche that failures are bad, and
successes are good. As you develop some mental toughness in all
areas of life, you discover that both failures and successes ride
together in tandem toward your goals.
Before I go
on, let me clarify something that inevitably pops up. I usually
hear something like, "I don't want to accept my mistakes. I
don't like mistakes!" Well, neither do I! But, I'm not telling
you to LIKE your mistakes, I'm telling you to learn how to DEAL
with your mistakes effectively. There is a huge difference.
When I teach
players of any age I begin with the same mental toughness principles
tailored to their age and skill level. Learning to handle mistakes
can be applied to a beginner as well as a top professional. As a
result my books and tapes can be applied to any level of play. The
material can even be applied to other sports, or even businesses.
I have martial artists, skeet shooters, soccer players, businessmen,
sales groups, etc. using my material. I have juniors who take my
books to tournaments and read some of the simple information as
a reminder between changeovers. This is a great idea for many players.
If you have trouble remembering an important principle you may want
to write down a few of the principles and review them quickly on
changeovers.
Or use your
computer to make a sticker and put it on your racket with a phrase
like "the next shot is more important than the last mistake."
I made stickers for some of my students who said it saved them many
times in a match. Remember- whether you're a junior or an adult,
the emotion of the moment can easily make you slip out of the mental
toughness zone. A reminder of some sort can help bring your waning
mental attitude back.
One last thing.
In the beginning of this lesson I gave you an important principle
that bears repeating. That principle is:
THE CORRECT
MENTAL ATTITUDE MUST BE IMMEDIATELY TRAINED INTO A PLAYER AND THAT
MENTAL ATTITUDE TAKES PRIORITY OVER MAKING A SHOT.
The priority
for everyone, child or adult, beginner, intermediate, advanced or
pro, is to train your mental attitude, NOT make a shot. Once you
train your mental attitude correctly, making a shot becomes a result.
If you think correctly, eventually you will execute correctly!
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